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my whole primary and secondary school life were ruined because of bullies, i have been bullied both verbally and physically. People spread negative rumours about me and my whole secondary 1 and 2 class are against me. My family have bad relationship problems with each other. I thought i could enjoy myself in school but in the end whether its school or home, i am still sad, angry or depressed. And i am not allowed to go out by myself even when im already a teenager

Don't kill yourself. It's better to live a sucky life than to have a sucky death right in the middle of it.

dear gabe, ive been in this situation before. it sucks. what i think would be good, is write a list of the cons and pros about (m) and (a). and see which one would actually make u happy. if (m) is dating other guys, then maybe you should tell her how you feel. and if she dosent care, then give her up. if (a) really likes you, you should see it through her eyes, if u broke up with her and she really liked you, you would be doing the same as (m) is doing to you. make sence? just make a list, sometime the one who likes you will be better for you than the one you like. because they will know how to treat u right. i hope that helps, always. Addy

Keep your head up bud! I know things seem bleak hut put your trust in God. I don't know if you are a Christian or not, but either way, talk to him. Even if you're not a Christian you can talk to a preacher or God himself to set you on the right path. Just remember, God has a plan for you, but it's your choice to follow it.
God bless, Gabe

I am not a big fans of kids myself! I could not pointed out why for so long. Then I realized that we live in a baby obsessed society and therefore we thought there must be something wrong with us, but actually not. It's a preference, it's a choice and it is justlike some people chose to get married, some not. Some ppl loves dogs and some are not etc. it could be because of your childhood and upbringing. I grow up as an only child and that makes me content with myself and I enjoy my alone time and my space and this is why I value it so much. I don't need a child to make me happy, I am content without one. I also think that most of us who hates kids are very focus and serious person and we found not cuteness is stupidity, being dirty or act crazy as innocent n cute, we found it annoying. But they r children and the know nothing unless they are being taught. I blame the parents! They should teach and show these kids how to behave, act and respect other people. They should never expect other people to tolerate them just because they have kids and therefor try could ruin our romantic adult dinner or movie or peaceful moment after hard days at work. Many people just want to relax and you parents wants us to understand your crazy kids running around, scream and cry? Those are very stressful and you parents should know that there are other people who needs some relaxation. So yes it's not the kids fault its the parents who made people like us think twice to have kids. Some ppl are not suppose to be a parent including those who abandon, abuse and left their children and family. Think and make sure U r ready in every aspects in life before u started popping children. Parents, be a good role model of love and discipline. Too much love spoiled the hell out of ur kids and they will grow up as a materialistic adults. Teach them that they could not have anything they want and do not use your screaming and crying as the weapon to get what you want oh and make sure they know that you are the boss and not their slave. Parents do u wanna know why u r tired all the time? Because u complicate things and do everything ur kids demanded u to do. U r their slaves and you feed a monster in the making. Bad parenting equals bad behavior. Spoiling ur kids is not love!! So honey, u might not wired for kids so don't keep trying to think there is something wrong with u. If the parents take better parenting skill, we might like their kids :)

I agree with you! I've been hating kids and babies with a passion ever since I was a teenager, they're nothing but noisy, filthy and annoying little monsters. I get pissed when I see them in malls and restaurants and mostly in airplanes which is why I hate flying coach because those little bastards never quit their crying and whining while their f***ing parents ignore them throughout the trip. And no, children are NOT little angels or a blessing, I prefer pets over those pigs I mean kids.

It's not only babies and children that suck but, the vast majority of adults do too. I'm fully understand not liking children. Hell, I can't stand most adults, either. People suck. Doesn't matter what age they are.

heres my advice.. if the first guy that broke your heart really loved you, he wouldent of let you go, he wouldent of let someone else take the position he was lucky to have, stay with the football star, that first guy sounds like trouble, he didnt see u hurt, he left you alone, that snot love, thats hurt. dont make him a priority if he only made you an option.. hope all goes well :)
 
- Gabi

yeah, I agree. Students should be allowed to wear what suits them, not what suits the school. Also, teachers are not fashion police, they need to teach instead of scrutinize.

Well, I can't say that I hate kids.  Just don't want any of my own and would be happy enough to not have any around.  Basically, a kid is like everyone else--if's decent to me I'll be decent to it.  And then I want it to go away.  
As for the initial question, there's nothing wrong with you.  Check out BabyOffBoard.com for some great childfree blog posts.

I ABSOLUTELY HATE KIDS WITH SUCH A PASSION. WHEN I HEAR ONE CRY OR SCREAM, I'D LIKE TO THROW THEM OVER A CLIFF. THEY ARE HORRIBLE CREATURES. I CANT STAND BABIES EITHER. I ESPECIALLY HATE TO SEE KIDS HAVING TEMPER TANTRUMS IN PUBLIC, I'D LIKE TO GO OVER AND SLAP THE LIVING SHIT OUT OF HIM OR HER, AND THE PARENT FOR ALLOWING IT. WHAT A HORRIBLE WASTE OF EXISTENCE!