I think there are kids and then kids. They are not all the same...there's a kind of kids I love to hate...and that is the spoiled, manipulative, bad-mannered, self-centered kids that won't let their parents do anything without screaming, crying, acting out and expecting to have everyone's attention. That kind of kid I just can't stand. I don't mind kids who have been well raised and show good manners and are not selfish monsters..those kinds of kids I can actually enjoy being around. I think this love-hate relationship with kids depends a lot on whether the kids in question have been well educated or not...so it really depends on how their parents have raised them.
I am really sorry for what happened to you the past years.... The best advice i can give you is, be yourself, and try enjoying life. I know it's hard, but death is a part of it... Don't be afraid of what's next, and never hold back the crying.. It helps.. I'm sure you can handle it.
I hear ya about finding a place (or having someone) to cry out loud to. I got so desperate once that I took a drive, parked the car in an empty parking lot and literally SCREAMED in my car. My ears hurt...but...damn, it felt good.
Sorry to hear about the quarrel with your mom. She shouldn't be treating you like an enemy - I assume she's going through some emotional baggage of her own (not that it's any excuse to treat her daughter that way).
I hope things get better. Hang in there (sometimes that's all we can do).
Sorry to hear about the quarrel with your mom. She shouldn't be treating you like an enemy - I assume she's going through some emotional baggage of her own (not that it's any excuse to treat her daughter that way).
I hope things get better. Hang in there (sometimes that's all we can do).
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Hello i totally know how u feel... u dont want to go to anyone and talk to them 1. ur prob scared 2. dont wana burden them 3. u dont wana be rejected and maybe a few other things... ok for the bullying try to get back at them like idk umm maybe figure out some secret about them and spread it out or say something mean to them that will make them seem like idiots (which they r)
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come talk to me about everything... i know how u feel i know what ur goin thru trust me i do... comment and give me ur email we could talk all about it... trust me im not a weird sico freak im only a teenager girl who knows how u feel and i want to help...
Jade, i understand how you feel. Fate has made this a part of your life,but there is nothing much that can be done,I just hope and pray that god can bless people in need like you and me
, to let us live a happier life, and receive more love and concern from the people around us.I have a whole family,no one missing,but NObody understands how i feel, or think about how I feel when they do certain things.Life is unfair and cruel,but we just have to aceept it and live life.
, to let us live a happier life, and receive more love and concern from the people around us.I have a whole family,no one missing,but NObody understands how i feel, or think about how I feel when they do certain things.Life is unfair and cruel,but we just have to aceept it and live life.
wow brandon u have no chance good luck with this dream of yours
I'm early 20's, female, married, earning all the money I can muster and putting myself through school in order to make something of my life some day. I can tell you now that I will never, ever have children and no, I will not change my mind when I get older, thank you. I have been told this by literally every person who has disgusting, rude, horrible little parasites that they themselves did not want.
I work a job where I am forced to be around children all the time (sorry, don't tell me to get a new job, it took me 6 months to find one in this economy) and they not only destroy the store, they steal, throw shit all over the floor, waste my time with stupid, pointless questions, but they run around and annoy other adult customers. I hate children and teenagers with a passion. And NO, I was not some spoiled shit when I was young. I was absolutely silent and attached to my mother's hip. Now I am a hard worker and have great grades. I don't waste money, have good credit, great friends, am healthy, and have a wonderful relationship with my husband.
Now I am not against some people having kids. My mother, for example, is a wonderful woman, extremely caring and loving and a good disciplinarian. She always wanted kids, and ended up having 2. If she were to have more children I would not fault her because she is 100% cool with donating her life to them, and competent enough to raise good human beings. Right now she works with kids to improve their lives and that is awesome. But almost of my friends/acquaintances who had unwanted children (which is to say, roughly 8/10 people) are on welfare, do not take care of their own (thanks to the kids' grandmothers) and are horrible at controlling the kids. Some of them spend all night partying and leave their kids with baby daddy/mommy. What a huge disgusting drain on the tax payers of this country. I hate getting my paycheck and knowing a good portion of it goes to people like my cousin who has a kid, cheats with food stamps, pays nothing to the government and parties all night and sleeps around. I know of one, ONE couple who wanted their daughter and are actively raising her to be sweet and quiet and above all, POLITE.
If I had my way, most people would not have kids. A few would be allowed and those would be the ones that wanted them and would donate 100% of their efforts to raising a decent person. Give contraception to the poor, mentally ill, selfish or incompetent people in EVERY country.
I work a job where I am forced to be around children all the time (sorry, don't tell me to get a new job, it took me 6 months to find one in this economy) and they not only destroy the store, they steal, throw shit all over the floor, waste my time with stupid, pointless questions, but they run around and annoy other adult customers. I hate children and teenagers with a passion. And NO, I was not some spoiled shit when I was young. I was absolutely silent and attached to my mother's hip. Now I am a hard worker and have great grades. I don't waste money, have good credit, great friends, am healthy, and have a wonderful relationship with my husband.
Now I am not against some people having kids. My mother, for example, is a wonderful woman, extremely caring and loving and a good disciplinarian. She always wanted kids, and ended up having 2. If she were to have more children I would not fault her because she is 100% cool with donating her life to them, and competent enough to raise good human beings. Right now she works with kids to improve their lives and that is awesome. But almost of my friends/acquaintances who had unwanted children (which is to say, roughly 8/10 people) are on welfare, do not take care of their own (thanks to the kids' grandmothers) and are horrible at controlling the kids. Some of them spend all night partying and leave their kids with baby daddy/mommy. What a huge disgusting drain on the tax payers of this country. I hate getting my paycheck and knowing a good portion of it goes to people like my cousin who has a kid, cheats with food stamps, pays nothing to the government and parties all night and sleeps around. I know of one, ONE couple who wanted their daughter and are actively raising her to be sweet and quiet and above all, POLITE.
If I had my way, most people would not have kids. A few would be allowed and those would be the ones that wanted them and would donate 100% of their efforts to raising a decent person. Give contraception to the poor, mentally ill, selfish or incompetent people in EVERY country.
You have no chance! Leave my fish sister alone!!!!
Back off u got no chance leave my sister alone








"ye,i understand how you feel but that will not make me to hate kids, i love kids cos they make me happy and bring joy to every family ."
This is because your life was worthless before you had kids and now you think your life has meaning, truth is your life is worth less because of the constant burden of children who's lives are also worthless. Why did this person think it was OK to have kids? Ignorance.