maybe he is talking about his girlfriends in his house.  A lot of people who wash their hands after using a public restroom don't wash their hands when using a restroom in a home.
 
And he is right... it is nasty.

Decide to be a grown up.
 
And tell your mom not to give you any more money when you ask.  Tell her that you know you need to grow up and be an adult.
 
And ask yourself... why are you okay with this.  Where is your self-respect?

Doesn't it also say that divorce is a sin?

You are not alone in this.
 
I do the same thing.
 
You and I both know that we aren't "in control" when we are starving.  Nothing about this cycle is "in control".  We feel in control because we are overcoming our desire to eat.
 
But we aren't in control.  We are as out of control as ever.  Still as helpless to this crazy disorder as ever.
 
We feel good because we aren't eating.  We feel bad because we are eating.
 
I understand.

Wife number 2 will eventually be ex-wife number 2.
 
Buy hey, you got laid.  That's what important.
 
Seriously, grown up these days are such children.  I have needs... waa waa.
 
I want a shiny new toy.  I want to stick my body part in dangerous places that they don't belong and I just want everyone to stop telling me what to do...
 
I so agree with the person above who said, man up.  Deal with your life, dude.  Brotha.  Either be a faithful husband or be single.
 
What is wrong with people.  

With feelings like this, and this powerful, and apparently quite taboo (as evidenced by the reactions above), you need to talk to someone.  If you don't think it's safe to talk to your mom about it, then find a good counselor.  I am NOT saying you're sick and need to talk to someone.  I'm saying that there is someone out there who will understand your feelings and not make you feel like a freak because of it.  I had a friend who was worried about a lot of the kinds of thoughts he had, and he said that just being able to talk about them out loud to another person helped him a great deal!  Just give it a thought.

As tough as it feels, don't give up on yourself yet.  I had to wait YEARS before I fell upon my true love, and I almost gave up several times.  As long as you're alive, there is hope and change.  Your search is noble - if we're not here to love and find love, why are we here?  Never give up.  Keep on believing.

Communicate with your wife. Try to set up a date. I'm sure she is interested. Poor excuses aside if you make time it will happen. It sure sounds like a shitty marriage if you can't even talk about your sex life.


Get a fleshlight. http://racy.com/pink-lady.html

Or get her a new toy you can use together: http://racy.com/layaspot-magenta-pearly-rose.html

Well... ditto. Unfortunately the cure for this is to wait. This state of being will change with time, even while the waiting sucks.

Thanks

aaaaaah you know what? just being able to b!tch about the situation on here to uninvolved parties and having you all dismiss it as catty crap makes me feel a lot better about not confronting her. i'd be a stalker of some kind since she's gone to great lengths to make sure i can't contact her. i'm gonna let this one go like abram said and find another person to fill that bff slot... this time not with an emotional vampire.
 
shok-g, i haven't seen the new rocky or rambo movies... i didn't see the sex in the city movie either if you're thinking i may lean more that way.
 
awww roger heebert you didn't warn me that was a movie spoiler, i can't believe they killed adrian off omfg.
 
oh yeah and juan... she's anti all that and not my type.
 
thanx again everyone i think i'm gonna hang out here more often.