How do u know ur feelings are not understood by that person.The outburst of your feelings,ur tears and your anger,probably u acted like u r avoiding him which may very well be understandable.

the problem is that even when they grow up, they add NO value to anything..... they still give you shit all the time and use you as free slaves.... so why have them?

Oh thank f***ing goodness I'm not alone. I hate kids with a seething painful passion, and I don't care that I'm 14 and therefore a kid myself. I've been a misanthropic child-hater since I was 9 and I'm not stopping now.
And to all the people who say: "OMG BUT U WERE TEH KID 2 ONC!!!!1"
Yes. We know. You were unemployed once(if you even have a job), do you now have to love every unemployed carbon based being in the whole f***ing universe?!

come on dont think like that im sure there is some one that cares about you alot NEVER lose hope. im 16 i have a lot to deal with but i never lose hope and if u still think nobody cares about u then you are wrong cuz i do ;)

You dont have to cry.Take a break from the thoughts you are going through now. Try to recollect and do the things that you were doing before meeting these guys, probably you would have forgotten those activities.After a month or so, if you are good enough to take a decision, take it.

Did a blunder mistake. I shouldn't have asked that question, so as the answer

Thank you everyone for your comments about how much you hate kids. I abhor them as well. I hate the way they smell, and more than that, I hate the way their parents worship them. They're non entities to me. My ex boyfriend put his daughter on a pedestal, worshipping everything about her. He treated me like garbage, then rubbed it in my face all the things he did for her. It made me hate kids even more. He bought me no gifts---not ever. However, he bragged about all the things he bought his daughter. He refused to allow me to meet her either, which solidified my contempt towards him and his goddamn little demon child he (probably) was even banging by the way he obsessed over her.

For my coming birthday, i wish to have super power that can stop the time for 5 minutes. Just enuff for me to go smack the annoying kids' heads.

wow nice to hear Im not alone. I dont hate kind well mannered kids. or caring kids. however there are far to many brats in this world with parents who think they can do no wrong.
and its annoying to sit in a restaurant with kids running about screaming and stuff, while the parents just sit chatting.
and its annoying to have kids in the street kicking footballs against fences, cars, garages that their folks wont pay damage for.
you wanna play football? join a club then you wanna scream and yell for ages?? well go to the park and do it,
children who respect the property and peace of others have my respect in return,
but too many kids are just bad.. and before u say kids cant be bad. well what about thompson and venables?? kids can KILL. kids can rape. kids can bully and steal and abuse old folks. kids are NOT little angels unless properly raised by decent parents

kids suck! I have never had kids, never will. I hate being around the shit heads. I love being on my own, coming home from work to a QUIET place, without that damned whining and crying constantly. What i really hate too are these young women getting knocked up so they will "fit in" with what society says is "normal"...and then have the stupid kids and then dump them on their own parents to look after them...so the grandparents are parents all over again because of the loser lives of their own kids. I have a cousin who finally retired and was hoping to enjoy retirement...her daughter gets married, gets pregnant, bastard husband leaves (of course), and leaves her with this kid...so guess what happened to "retirement"??? YEP, it's gone. I feel sooooo sorry for my cousin and i hate that the dumbass daughter is dumping her brat on her mom like this...because she wants to go out and "enjoy" her life...you should have thought of that aspect of life before you spread your legs! Why would anyone in their right mind want to have a fucking kid...you have NO life after that...you will have that piece of shit chained to you for 18 years...HELL NO! not me! I love my freedom. I always wonder if all these "happy to be a mom" ladies really love having to tote their fucking brats everywhere...god, what a hellish life

i am not a fan of kids...i am 58, never married, never had the "cinderella fantasy". I can't stand kids, i hate seeing them in public places. They are obnoxious brats. I see young ladies lugging them around in malls and i think " I bet you wish you could go shopping with your friends without dragging these screaming mimi's with you...making your life miserable", You have NO life of your own...i don't think it's all it's cracked up to be.

dont let her know that u're a"bi" just enjoy silently