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Friends with benefits
I’ve become close with one of my housemates over the course of the year and recently we decided to experiment a little bit and take things further. We shagged for a good few weeks – which was great! But we eventually decided that it wasn’t a good idea and should call it quits. It was more me than her that decided this. I realised that it was lust not love and was worried about hurting her. Fortunately it all worked out and we’re still great friends.
However, a girl who I was besotted with a while ago has recently confessed that she has feelings for me and always has! This was the girl who really scarred my heart and took ages to get over. I made myself believe that she simply wasn’t interested.
Well we have now become friends with benefits. Twice. I’ve told myself not to get attached (which I don’t think I will) for fear of getting hurt again. She knows this. So it’s basically casual, relatively emotion-free sex.
However, the ex friend with benefits doesn’t know about my recent doings. Although its over between her and I, I still know she would be really upset if she knew about this other girl and I’m worried about telling her.
Do I tell her? Do I carry on and hope she doesn’t find out (with the intention of avoiding causing any heartache). Is what I’m doing alright? In my own defense it does take two to tango and I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong. I just don’t want to hurt anyone…
Thoughts?
However, a girl who I was besotted with a while ago has recently confessed that she has feelings for me and always has! This was the girl who really scarred my heart and took ages to get over. I made myself believe that she simply wasn’t interested.
Well we have now become friends with benefits. Twice. I’ve told myself not to get attached (which I don’t think I will) for fear of getting hurt again. She knows this. So it’s basically casual, relatively emotion-free sex.
However, the ex friend with benefits doesn’t know about my recent doings. Although its over between her and I, I still know she would be really upset if she knew about this other girl and I’m worried about telling her.
Do I tell her? Do I carry on and hope she doesn’t find out (with the intention of avoiding causing any heartache). Is what I’m doing alright? In my own defense it does take two to tango and I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong. I just don’t want to hurt anyone…
Thoughts?
(2 month ago)
hey there, daaarnnn u really know how to put your feet in it. Ex-Best-friend-with-benefits (ExFWB) will be hurt if she finds out, if it is by hearing from you, or someone else. She'll find out either way, best u tell her. It may scar your relationship, but if she hears it from someone else, it may be the end. Thing is, we are emotional beings, u were the one who decided that its not gonna work more than her. EBFWB probably feels something for you, even if it is only a little. Current-friend-with-benefits (CurFWB)if she takes sex as casual, then her relationship with you is casual. I dont know her at all...so from a third party random person that visits the peegly website, try not to get attached, and beware that she doesnt get attached to you. If she confessed her feelings...she probably do have something for you.
look its only my thoughts, lz dont be angry or offended coz once again....i have noooo idea who u are, ExFWB or CurFWB
good luck...and dont be silly wrap your Willy...AIDS can happen to you too. I may sound like ur grandma or mom, but im a loooot younger than u think. anyway i hope it works out
look its only my thoughts, lz dont be angry or offended coz once again....i have noooo idea who u are, ExFWB or CurFWB
good luck...and dont be silly wrap your Willy...AIDS can happen to you too. I may sound like ur grandma or mom, but im a loooot younger than u think. anyway i hope it works out
(2 month ago)
Hey, thx for the comment 
I do feel that I'm in a bit of a pickle with this situation. I guess the CURFWB's timing is just really bad. I feel like I have gone from a state of celibacy and turned into a sexual fiend. Lol. It’s funny how life works like that. I really just don’t want to hurt anyone (namely ExFWB).
I do feel that I'm in a bit of a pickle with this situation. I guess the CURFWB's timing is just really bad. I feel like I have gone from a state of celibacy and turned into a sexual fiend. Lol. It’s funny how life works like that. I really just don’t want to hurt anyone (namely ExFWB).
(2 month ago)
And don’t worry - I’m always safe. CURFWB and I actually both had HIV tests at work, and ExFWB hadn’t been with anyone else before 
Yes, I live with the one girl, and I was her first, and I work with the other one. Eish. I guess that adds a whole new layer to this predicament!
Yes, I live with the one girl, and I was her first, and I work with the other one. Eish. I guess that adds a whole new layer to this predicament!
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