Found the love of my life and think he feels the same(he has said it many times) but we have decided to call things off for a while as he has got a lot of stuff going on and isnt coping which was making him ill & the lack of contact, Text was making me ill as i wasnt sure what was going on we are both a bit insecure and have been hurt in the past which didnt help.... But now im just not sure what im ment to be doing i know he still loves me & we only split up to stop me getting ill he does text me sometimes to say he hasnt forgotten me and is trying his best to sort things out and i have no interest in needing a partner so can & will wait. But how do i know he will want me back & how long should i leave it? i dont want to be just strung along if you know what i meen its been @7 weeks now & i dont want to keep feeling like this ( used, usless, unwanted, & over emotional) for another 3 months for him to just never come back to me... He is depressed and i think he has lost his job now and is having trouble with getting contact with his kids his Ex is the reason for all this... any advice please Yes he is worth it