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19 Never Had A Girlfriend
I'm 19 years old and I have never had a girlfriend.
It seems like I'm never going to get a girlfriend. (Just take this as a little note: I have no money, no vehicle, live with my parents, no job, and not in college.) I don't even know how to be a boyfriend. I just wish that there was someone out there for me!!!!! It seems like girls think I'm a freak and a weirdo! I've tried to get girls to like me in high school but they never liked me back, never even spoke back to me, so i took it as they thinking of me as a weirdo and freak. I don't have very many friends that are girls and the ones that are my friends have boyfriends. I always see couples and wish I had that. I watch movies and listen to music about love wishing and hoping that would happen to me. I've cried a lot wishing I had a girlfriend to hold and love! Also just to let you know I am NOT interested in sex, so this is not just to get sex or anything like that! I just wish that I had a girlfriend to hold, love, cuddle with, have fun with, and to know that a girl actually liked me. I am a Christian and believe in God very much!!! I wish a lot of things would stop and disappear (eg. Crime, Violence, Hate, Greed,)!!!! Maybe God thinks I don't deserve someone cause of the things that I've done (eg. Pyro, Sexual Acts, Various Sexual Thoughts)???? I just don't know anymore! I'm so lost!!!! Will I ever find someone? 
"Guess it's true that love is all you wanted
Cause you're giving it away like it's extra change
Hoping it will end up in her pocket
But she leaves you out like a penny in the rain
Oh cause it's not her price to pay
It's not her price to pay" ---- Taylor Swift
It seems like I'm never going to get a girlfriend. (Just take this as a little note: I have no money, no vehicle, live with my parents, no job, and not in college.) I don't even know how to be a boyfriend. I just wish that there was someone out there for me!!!!! It seems like girls think I'm a freak and a weirdo! I've tried to get girls to like me in high school but they never liked me back, never even spoke back to me, so i took it as they thinking of me as a weirdo and freak. I don't have very many friends that are girls and the ones that are my friends have boyfriends. I always see couples and wish I had that. I watch movies and listen to music about love wishing and hoping that would happen to me. I've cried a lot wishing I had a girlfriend to hold and love! Also just to let you know I am NOT interested in sex, so this is not just to get sex or anything like that! I just wish that I had a girlfriend to hold, love, cuddle with, have fun with, and to know that a girl actually liked me. I am a Christian and believe in God very much!!! I wish a lot of things would stop and disappear (eg. Crime, Violence, Hate, Greed,)!!!! Maybe God thinks I don't deserve someone cause of the things that I've done (eg. Pyro, Sexual Acts, Various Sexual Thoughts)???? I just don't know anymore! I'm so lost!!!! Will I ever find someone?
"Guess it's true that love is all you wanted
Cause you're giving it away like it's extra change
Hoping it will end up in her pocket
But she leaves you out like a penny in the rain
Oh cause it's not her price to pay
It's not her price to pay" ---- Taylor Swift
(5 month 2 week ago)
For a change, TRY to actually get a girlfriend.
Remember, most guys don't get girlfriends by waiting for them to fall off the sky.
They have social circles, they go out, they HIT ON girls - don't be afraid to do this.
I'll tell you my story. When I way younger, I was actually doing good with the ladies. Then, all of a sudden that STOPPED. It was like an instant change, and I just couldn't do it anymore.
I would go out with the usual friends, to the usual places, and every day and night I would be alone. Months passed and I wasn't with a SINGLE girl.
Long story short, I read for weeks articles on (continued)
Remember, most guys don't get girlfriends by waiting for them to fall off the sky.
They have social circles, they go out, they HIT ON girls - don't be afraid to do this.
I'll tell you my story. When I way younger, I was actually doing good with the ladies. Then, all of a sudden that STOPPED. It was like an instant change, and I just couldn't do it anymore.
I would go out with the usual friends, to the usual places, and every day and night I would be alone. Months passed and I wasn't with a SINGLE girl.
Long story short, I read for weeks articles on (continued)
(5 month 2 week ago)
psychology, dating, fitness, body language, hell even books about hypnosis!
In the end, I kind of figured out that books weren't the answer. The answer was that I just wasn't trying. I would complain and be unhappy, and but I would just sit at home, or go out with male friends and talk about guy stuff...
The whole change was that I started approaching girls, having casual conversation and showing genuine interest. With time, I got better and funnier, and now I can say that I'm living happily with my current girlfriend together.
In a way, I'm happy for what happened. Because if it didn't - I wouldn't be with her now. I would just stay the same old guy, and try to date as many girls as I can, without even noticing what is really happening...
I'm sure you can go the same route dude, just try.
P.S. You can contact me on my website - www.pimpjerk.com (note to admins: this is not SPAM!)
In the end, I kind of figured out that books weren't the answer. The answer was that I just wasn't trying. I would complain and be unhappy, and but I would just sit at home, or go out with male friends and talk about guy stuff...
The whole change was that I started approaching girls, having casual conversation and showing genuine interest. With time, I got better and funnier, and now I can say that I'm living happily with my current girlfriend together.
In a way, I'm happy for what happened. Because if it didn't - I wouldn't be with her now. I would just stay the same old guy, and try to date as many girls as I can, without even noticing what is really happening...
I'm sure you can go the same route dude, just try.
P.S. You can contact me on my website - www.pimpjerk.com (note to admins: this is not SPAM!)
(2 month 2 week ago)
hey people love people who love themselves. You must learn to love yourself, devote yourself to things you love, shape your unique personality. Maybe you like to travel, perhaps rock climbing, whatever it is, once you learn to live with yourself and be comfortable and confidant, you will find that others love you that way too.
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