Ok, let me start from the beginning. About September I started liking a girl (M). I couldn't stop thinking about her, we had been liking her for a while but started falling in what I think is love around that time. Later in about October I told my best female friend (A) that I liked M. We talked about it and found out she liked my best friend (J). On December 23, J tweeted that he liked a girl, she liked him back, but he was too afraid to ask. I replied telling him to go for it. On December 24, I read on Facebook "J & M are in a relationship". M Had a couple months earlier broke of with her boyfriend who she had dated for almost two months. After their breakup, she kept saying that she didn't want to marry and than men were holding her back. (A) told me that this was probably her way of not getting hurt. me and (A) dulled and talked about this and decided to just wait. In Febuary, (M) and her friends kept saying me and (A) should date (they wrote a list of 100 reasons we should date). Eventually we agreed with each other that we would fake it and break up at a set time. At the dance a few nights later we danced and had a good time, but we talked and we couldn't just break up after a display like that. We decided to wait a little while longer, and we never discussed it again. We are now currently dating but I still have large feelings for M but have also grown to like (a). I don't know if I'm leading her on but I'm just so confused right now and really need some advice. God bless, Gabe.