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Sins
(6 month 2 week ago)
Category: Sins

Sexual Needs
Sex with the babysitter? My secretary? My son's best friend's mother (who IS a milf!)
 
I'm married (for the second time) and I know how it all works when it comes to love and marriage.
 
The first stage is sexual, exciting, and unpredictable.
 
The second stage is the nesting phase.  Settling down in the right house, getting matching furniture and attending to "honey do" lists.
 
The third stage is static boredom.  Routine b.s.  Lack of sex for all the same reasons as the first time around: "I'm tired. The kids wore me out.  It's the time of the month." Blah blah blah.
 
I don't want to leave my wife, far from it.  We have a great relationship.
 
But I want to hump everything that moves and I flirt constantly!!!  Hoping that some of the flirting leads to a couple of one night stands...anything to recharge my batteries.
 
I flirt with the day care lady.  I should say girl.  She's 18 and has an unbelievable rack, and lips..oh my, lips you would DIE to kiss.  mercy!
 
We carry on conversations via text message sometimes...but nothing will happen...this one is too close to home...and she's got issues....like I need more issues!
 
My son's best friend's mother.
 
Oh my.  She is delicious in every way.  Hazel eyes, a supple rack (enhanced surgically), and a booty that would make a brotha cry for more!
 
She's another one I constantly flirt with.  I masterbate to visions of her riding my you know what...every morning...I can see her french tips now...riding up and down on my pole.
 
wow.  What is a guy to do?
 
If only we could keep our family lives AND have the right to go out and recharge our batteries....
 
Life is short...should I do it?
(6 month 2 week ago)

Aren't you married ?
(6 month 2 week ago)

Well no shit he's married - I know exactly what he's thinking and feeling.
 
Craig's List, buddy - Casual Encounters.  Don't waste time answering W4M ads - most are by porn spammers.  Just place your own ad and make sure you include your location and you're looking for NSA.  
 
I may take a couple days, but if you say the right things and are in the right location, and are available at the right tomes (A lot of IFs), you'll get some.
 
...and lay off the women that know your wife, eh?  
(6 month 2 week ago)

Thanks man!  Appreciate it...been "LOOKING" at the casual encounters for a long time...never got responses...there's a lot of sh*t out there...
 
Thanks for understanding!
(6 month 2 week ago)

You should probably divorce your wife or at least tell her you want to do this. It is kinda a hypocrisy. Get some marriage counseling.
 
Asking the internet for dating advice is like asking a wookie about hair care products.
(6 month 1 week ago)

let me summarize: you have a boring marriage, you are not brave enough to change it, and you lack the self-control to live in it. i don't see how could it end well.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Its actually not a boring marriage, so therefore I have no need to change it.
 
Im talking about sex drive here people...not morals.  
 
Im also not totally asking for dating advice.  I dont want to date.  I wanna fk.
 
Im airing my feelings...to get it off my chest so to speak, nothing more.
 
Its funny how people think my marriage will end because Im having these thoughts.  
 
Trust me, for those of you who think you know someone who is happily married...that person still wants to fk other people...and Im willing to bet, he or she will or would do it, if given a risk free encounter...like a boys trip to Vegas!
 
I love being married, but the routine sucks.
(6 month 1 week ago)

I think most men have these thoughts. I too am in the static bordom phase. The only thing I can tell you is that I love my wife and I acted on those feelings. The guilt ate me alive and I eventually confessed. She agreed to stick it out, only to return the favor later on. We did end up changing the way we view each other, and we worked it out, but you really love your wife, I would seriously think about acting on your urges. Porn and a locked office door sometimes feel like a poor substitute for the desire for multiple partners, but in the end I think it's best.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Only do it if you haven't promised your wife you wouldn't - like in your wedding vows (anything to the effect of "cherish" or "respect" would count, here).  That is, unless you don't take your word seriously.
 
Check out a book called "Every Man's Marriage".  Totally different perspective than where you're coming from.
 
Look, dude, you're on your second marriage.  And it sounds like the sexual aspect is shaping up a lot like your first.  The problem might be with the way you're approaching it.  Does your wife know how important sex is to you?  Does your wife know that you're not satisfied?  If not, man up and talk to her.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Sweet, so you're okay with your wife banging other dudes, then?
(6 month 1 week ago)

What an absolute jerk.
(6 month 1 week ago)

I hope to god this woman beat you out of the gate and is cheating on you already - otherwise, what a waste of her time.  Have some respect.  It seems pretty obvious that somewhere along the line you are going to have the opportunity to cheat, and you will take it, judging by your post. The only reason you give for not f-king your kid's day care lady is that she lives too close by. And to be honest, I think even text messaging her is a big mistake. God help you if your wife ever checks your phone...then you will have some major problems, whether you actually go through with cheating or not.
 
Why not try helping your wife out, give her a break to recharge HER batteries, and then see if she still gives excuses about being too tired for sex. If she does, maybe there is a problem that you are overlooking that you guys need to talk about.
 
And honestly, put yourself in her shoes - how would you feel if your wife flirted with and wanted to f-k every guy she came into contact with, and was seriously contemplating doing so? Worse yet, how would you feel if she actually went through with it?
(6 month 1 week ago)

Dude,
 
You are treading on dangerous territory.   Single women only go for NSA sex if they are getting paid, or "damaged".  You'll either end up with a stalker, a pregnancy, or a nice little itchy present to bring home to the wife.
 
have you thought perhaps that your wife isn't "inspired" by your previous performances?  perhaps you've been a little less affectionate as of late?  perhaps you've forgotten to notice when she's changed her hairstyle.  maybe you've put on a few pounds in unpleasant places.
 
I'd recommend avoiding the infidelity, and ask yourself, have you given it your all?
 
before you place an ad, how about you do a little readin'.
 
"His Needs, Her Needs, building an affair-proof marriage.
you'd be surprised how little you've done.

 
 
(6 month 1 week ago)

Communicate with your wife. Try to set up a date. I'm sure she is interested. Poor excuses aside if you make time it will happen. It sure sounds like a shitty marriage if you can't even talk about your sex life.


Get a fleshlight. http://racy.com/pink-lady.html

Or get her a new toy you can use together: http://racy.com/layaspot-magenta-pearly-rose.html
(6 month 1 week ago)

Wife number 2 will eventually be ex-wife number 2.
 
Buy hey, you got laid.  That's what important.
 
Seriously, grown up these days are such children.  I have needs... waa waa.
 
I want a shiny new toy.  I want to stick my body part in dangerous places that they don't belong and I just want everyone to stop telling me what to do...
 
I so agree with the person above who said, man up.  Deal with your life, dude.  Brotha.  Either be a faithful husband or be single.
 
What is wrong with people.  
(6 month 1 week ago)

If she knows what your needs are, assuming they are not unreasonable, and yet she refuses to meet them, perhaps you should discuss your desire for sexual intimacy with other people. If she rationally disallows your sexual satisfaction with her, then perhaps she would rationally allow your dalliance with another woman. Don't fall in love and don't make a baby - that is our motto.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Set up a three some. You could make it a surprise for your birthday or for hers. Hook up with the mother instead of any others.
 
You could also go be intimate in a car somewhere.
 
Pretty exciting imo.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Hey, how about this: grow the f**k up and honor your promises, you selfish prick. I am sick to death of boys like you acting like you're the only person in the world that matters. Do you even give a shit what kind of pain you're going to cause to your kids, AGAIN?

Frankly, the world would be better off if you get hit by a bus. At least your wife and son would get your insurance money, and never have the pain of knowing how wrong they were about you.
(6 month 1 week ago)

Hi, I am married too. 16 years. I had feel the same urge, and acted about it. Now I have a girlfriend (she is married too) and we are very happy. I feel full of energy and life is new and exciting.
 
Go for it, but be careful and keep secrets secrect...
(6 month 1 week ago)

have you ever thought about what it would be like if your wife screwed you every day? wouldn't it become tedious after a long time? like a chore?
 
sex is supposed to be an expression of love, isn't it?
(6 month 1 week ago)

Read this:
 
Summary of The Couple’s Journey: Intimacy as a Path to Wholeness by Susan Campbell
(6 month 1 week ago)

Fly down to Bangkok on a business trip
(6 month 1 week ago)

Duh! I thought I'd put a link in that. Adult Guide Bangkok
(6 month 1 week ago)

Why not just come to an honest agreement with your wife that she can do it and so can you?  Or failing that both turn an (implicit) blind eye to the others indiscretions...
(6 month 1 week ago)

Wow, look at all the attention my little post about getting some "strange" is getting.
 
I appreciate all the comments...everyone get a life and comment on something else!  LOL!
(5 month 3 week ago)

fagget You have a Wife!!
(5 month 3 week ago)

Whatevs, dipstick. RealDolls don't even count.
(5 month 2 week ago)

go ahead and fk everbody fks somebody and somebody fks everybody. Keep the circle going. Good luck use protection.
(5 month 1 week ago)

know exactly how you feel.  If you find an answer let me know.
(3 month ago)

Dude, go for it! Get it wherever you can, whenever you can!
(3 month ago)

Ur a jerk, i hate ppl like you. dont u care bout what ur doing to the women u love!? the one who u went on your knees for and promised forever? are all men like that? Bad
(3 month ago)

If such thoughts ever manifest into actions you are going to die alone.
(2 month 3 week ago)

I know how you feel......I'm going through the same shit.....but I'm a woman, so it goes both ways, lol. I'm not sure what's wrong where....but I'm not even sure if I want to figure that out. Be careful and do what you please......but someone will get hurt. Been there.....Sad
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