ya i understand..it happens but den once u will have a baby..automatically u will love yr kids..thre will come a strong love..

don't worry about.  I have two kids and constantly wonder why I chose to have them.  they are 5 and 2.  They talk all your money and time and give nothing in return.  All this talk about "oh kids the enrich your life so much", "kids make you see life at a new level" yeah...the level of wanting to bash your head into a wall constantly.
 
If you don't have kids, please for the love of God don't have them. If you enjoy your life now...just don't do it.
 
to sum up.... having kids sucks!

You were a kid once, and a probably a pain in your mothers ass.  From the sounds of it, you still are.
 
Selfish comes to mind.
 
Were you abused as a child?
 
Were you lacking friends?
 
You've got problems for sure if you don't like kids...sorry...but that's the bottom line brother!

die

Some people may have evolved past the need to crap their DNA all over the earth. If you don't want to have any that's your business!

HI Mr, that is not at all a problem . you might faced some disgusting problems with the children in life that may the reason for your behavior.
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You were a kid once, and a probably a pain in your mothers ass.��From the sounds of it, you still are.
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Selfish comes to mind.
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Were you abused as a child?
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Were you lacking friends?
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You've got problems for sure if you don't like kids...sorry...but that's the bottom line brother!
 

you know what, are you referring to your own life. This person is reaching out trying to figure out why she feels the way she does and all you do is bash, bash, bash. I think you are selfish, rude and most likely lacking in friends yourself.
 
i think that a lot of parents these days do not disipline their kids at all and dont show them the right way to act in public. It is extremely hard to raise kids. I have two from my marriage and my husband has one from a previous marriage. My kids are great in public because I refuse to let them act any other way. It's call disipline people, use it and your children will be better, LIKEABLE, people. I hate going anywhere too, dining, movies or even simpler, the grocery store. I hate my best friends kids because they are undisipline little whinny brats. Her kids are an embarassment to take anywhere because she simply does nothing when they act out....Get the pattern people, disipline with good family values matters. Does anyone actually spend any time with their kids these days. Every single night my family each dinner together, every single night....among other things, we spend a lot of time with them trying to show them how to be good people and how the world is starting to seriously lack in any morals or values, our soceity is on a decline....

ye,i understand how you feel but that will not make me to hate kids, i love kids cos they make me happy and bring joy to every family .

Sometimes I feel the same way.  I have 2 much younger siblings that drive me nuts most of the time! But other times they are very sweet and that makes up for it.  I try to forget about how angry they make me sometimes, and focus on the good things.  Everyone has their ups and downs.  Even grown-ups.
 
Maybe the kids that you see that are bad just stand out more than the ones that are good.  If you are in the grocery store and you pass a child who is screaming because his mother wont buy him a candy bar, and then you pass a child who is quietly sitting in the seat of the cart, behaving himself while his mother shops, which one are you more likely to notice? Most likely you would remember the screaming child and completely forget about the well-behaved child.  
 
Next time you go out, see if you notice any "good kids".  And sometimes if you look at them and smile, they will smile back and that might change your mind about them. It's like this little person that you don't even know likes you enough to smile at you!  :)

Mom and Dad had 17 kids, an eccentricity that amazed me. Wife and I got married at 42 and 43, and we reluctantly conceded it would be proper to have one kid, a girl, because they're so hip. We thought we could achieve this by the simple expedient of not taking contraceptives. Not so simple. We thought we'd missed the bus. For no intelligible reason that was an agony. Then as if by magic, wife delivered a boy. I have never regretted it for one minute in 14 years. Advice: just have one before it's too late. Don't reason about it. There is no reason. You won't be sorry.

I do not hate them, I am not a fan of being around them & I certainly do not want one. Luckily, my own LTR partner isn't interested in having children either. I believe people feel the way they do for they're own reasons. It is awesome the power of choice. There isn't anything wrong with you love.

Hi olivia,
 
there is no normalcy in either having or not having kids..
So do not fret about that part.. it is just a personal choice.
 
The unfortunate thing is that society 'enforces' its ethics on you, making you feel that you have some problem for not wanting kids... and making you come here and query about the "problem"..
 
You most likely hate kids as you say, just because you are resisting the directive, that society tries to enforce on you..
 
You should feel good that your system still manages to put your own choices above the society's ones..
 

I LOVE babies - especially with sweet chilly sauce. Devine! :D

You spoke your peace and a few other people who didn't agree with you found it necessary to belittle you and call you selfish because you didn't agree with them or the "norm". Screw people, it's your life and you are free to think and feel any damn thing you want to. I also can't stand the little rugrats and I find them annoying as all hell. I am polite to children when they are forced in my face but generally, I avoid them. I don't care what people think of me for it and I don't care if the small minded people of the world find it necessary to force feed me their beliefs because it differs from theirs because all you are doing is making it clear that you are small minded and must make the world believe as you do. I and the writer of this post have a right to believe and like whatever we do or don't want to. Almost the whole world loves children except us few; Almost the whole world loves puppies and kittens too but I wouldn't bad mouth some person who didn't just because I did. More power to you lady for speaking your mind and daring to go against the "norm". Someone had to stick up for her!